Dating a older man with children
04-Sep-2020 20:32
I used to blame myself if she denied him access and sometimes I can’t help but feel she texts him all day about his daughter simply as an excuse to talk to him.I believe that one detrimental element in these situations is jealousy.I want her to grow up and see me as an extra person, not somebody who is trying to replace her mother.As time went on, she recognised me more and even said my name a couple of times, which warmed my heart.After hours of ‘peekaboo’ it appeared that she had relaxed and became much more comfortable in my presence.I think it is extremely important to never assume your role in a child’s life; I only ever want to be a friend and someone who could play hide and seek still at my age.
His ex is still very much involved in his life and I don’t particularly like it but I absolutely accept it.
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