Dating in your late forties
You are correct - intelligence pretty much never was mentioned by the people I talked to ...
I mean apparently it's fine with men if if a woman erroneously believes that it's ok to tax the middle class to death to pay for Obama's form of socialized medicine or you forward every dumb internet forward that comes your way as long as you look hot doing it.
The way to know if you are wearing some tight clothes that look hot on you is to see if you are getting any increased attention as a result.
[If the "increased attention" is someone saying "that's disgusting", then you probably should not be wearing what you are wearing.] What I'm really saying here is - show off what you've got ... I know this is vague, but I also know that everyone knows what I'm talking about.
it is a reflection of what all early to mid-forties men want ... 1) Brazilian Wax Job I found it amazing how many of us men find a Brazilian wax job so incredibly important and sexy on a woman. ] The truth is - not all women in their forties are willing to get a Brazilian wax job ... The difference from a man's point-of-view is night and day ... 2) Financial Contributor to the Relationship Being a "financial contributor to the relationship" simply means that you earn an income, and are an economic asset (not a liability) to the male-female partnership. The truth is that we men prefer that a woman is capable of standing on her own financially ... We don't mind being the major breadwinner - but we also don't want to be funding any slackers. 4) Physical Attributes are Definitely a Bonus Not all men are pigs, but most of us are.
[If you don't know what this is - it refers to a completely shaved or waxed vagina ... and that is a shame because in today's world, there is nothing less attractive than a hairy woman. we absolutely favor the completely waxed look down there ... Perhaps this particular attribute is a sign of the times ... 3) Positive Mental Attitude Having a girlfriend with a positive mental attitude is really important to us men. [I am, for example.] We appreciate a good-looking woman ...
but sadly they are not the first things that pop into a man's mind. This is very important to me, and very attractive too - it's something that is often visible on a first encounter.