Did i scare her away dating
The weekend after, he had friends in town, which I assumed were male friends visiting him as he just moved here four months ago from another city.We made plans to go to a sporting event together, his treat.He initiated this with his kind words, asking me to hang out with him before I completely slipped from his mind.He even met some of my friends and gave us free tickets to a sporting event and sat with us.but she said she doesn't want to hang out with you and has put you basically into some sort of friend zone where she doesn't want to see you at least not one on one anyway. Asking is tawdry & is you basically calling her promiscuous. Do not talk to her about anything deep or serious especially related to relationship. Said she was damaged in the past and that she wanted to get to know me more and didnt want to be tied down, so I kind of just shrugged that off and went to sleep. She was softening the blow of kicking you out of her life for the sin of wanting more then she can give. If you want a relationship or if you are catching feelings or can't divorce sex from emotion, leave this woman alone. If you are truly OK with a nonexclusive sexual relationship where she is also having sex with other men, proceed.I guess she has someone else in mind or in reality. You are probably too invested to just be a fwb anyway. Then we both left for winter break and kept in contact, she would Snapchat me every now and then, send me funny texts and what not but the flame seemed like it was dying out, her texts got shorter. Based on how this thread is going I don't think you are hard wired to have NSA sex so I advise that you simply leave her alone.
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