Downfall of dating older men
If you’re in your forties and feel like you have a young soul and body, it might be easy as pie for you to attract a guy in his mid- or late twenties (or thirties! Not only is she at her most confident, but this woman has got it together.She supports herself and is very in touch with her needs.Ask him for help around the house, put him in charge of travel, let him cook you a special meal, and be comfortable in sharing your vulnerabilities with him.If you’re able to navigate gender roles and live in your SEXY Alpha FEMinine, the relationship can work for the long term. Every guy comes to the realization that being jealous of your guy friends just makes him look sad and lame. Added bonus: He'll probably get along with your parents better because he's a little (tiny! Not that he's old, but he'll rock out to Hendrix with your dad in the man cave and not feel too weird about it. Having seen more than two vulvas, he knows each is a beautiful and unique orchid and he won't hesitate to compliment yours. He doesn't give a shit if you haven't shaved in a few days. I.e., he won't be one of those lamewads who clings to your friend group and sits around the house eating Cheez-Its and waiting for you to come over and watch Netflix with him. If he likes you, why would he avoid you until it's deemed societally appropriate to text? Practice makes orgasms, or however that saying goes. And he knows that vulvas don't usually look like two unused Pink Pearl erasers and smell like Bath and Body Works vanilla bean. " Older guys probably have nieces or nephews or neighbor kids by this point and can interact with a child in a normal way. In his years of dating, he's probably been with a woman during a pregnancy scare and now fully understands the value of family planning. He has his own friends and job and hobbies and schedule.Notes Some studies have shown that if a wife is five or more years younger than her husband, they’re much more likely to avoid divorce.
If it’s a long-term relationship, just be open and honest with any man (younger OR older) and you can definitely find yourself happily ever after in Cougarville.Some other potential issues that can arise if an older woman is dating a younger man: There’s a chance you’ll experience some insecurities or anxiety about whether a younger guy will stray, but that can only happen if you haven’t mastered your own self-confidence that a guy is with you for the right reason.