Ex dating a new guy
It's my experience that if your girlfriend does not have friends that it will ruin your relationship.Like james my ex broke up with me 3 months ago and we dated for 2.5 yrs.Again we just ended things and I moved out two weeks ago. I feel she jumped in to something to fill a void because shes lonely and depressed. We had discussed future and engagement amany times in during our relationship. She was even looking at rings online telling me what she liked and disliked to give me ideas just a week prior to us splitting. Any advice, help, a way for me to cope, recommendations?
I just found out she is already seeing/sleeping with another man. part of me wants to ignore her, another part of me wants to be nice and cordial but in a way let her know I am moving on too..its difficult for me to ever think we could be togther again or have a stronger relationship with all that has happened... I havent heard anything from her for 2 months now and im fine, i still think of her everyday but dont miss her anymore, i just miss the relationship we once had. does that mean when she texts me, just flat out ignore her, not responding? do I let that go on everytime she tries to get a hold of me... That's awfully quick considering you guys had been together for a while and were even discussing getting married. not doing your fair share of chores around the house seems odd to me.I know we need time apart and maybe we do need to see other people.. Concentrate on yourself, keep busy and it will get easier, believe me. or just give vague short responses and not get in to any relationship talk? I kind of just want to have a game plan when I am in the right mind set so I don't do something I shouldnt when the emotions come back when the time comes that I do hear from her. I believe there is more to her reason than she is telling you.But you really should try to look at this as objectively as possible.
Her actions tell a very different story then what s coming out of her mouth.Sometimes people become self-destructive when they are feeling this way.