Guys dating advice for women
"You might find something is really fun, and then you can transfer that to partner sex." Otherwise, saying anything that's praising, instructive, and even a little dirty tends to go over well with men.
Tell him exactly how you want to be touched (and where, and using what) and you'll his pleasure meter — and yours —through the roof.
"As a woman ages and the relationship goes on, [many] stop being spontaneously horny," she explains."Men want their wives to enjoy raw sex, not just endure it or take it personally," says Joe Kort, Ph.D, a psychotherapist and sexologist in Royal Oak, Michigan.Example: "I really love having sex with you, and after we have sex I feel really close and connected.
I know you really want to shower, but I really want to cuddle.
So taboo is this desire for intimacy that its possibility can terrify men; not because it's smothering, but because they realize how desperate they are for it. First, understand that your guy's hasty retreat post-sex may be because he doesn't understand how much he craves a connection with you.