Help me write a profile for a dating site


23-Dec-2019 03:16

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of singles crawl dating sites and apps, flipping through photos and profiles of potential matches. Here at WIRED, we couldn’t help but think there might be a better way to optimize your chances, so we pulled massive amounts of data from Ok Cupid and Match.com, searching for tips that might help you master Internet dating and find someone awesome.

Finding a date, let alone love, just isn’t easy—even though there are plenty of apps for that.

Users skim profiles looking for a reason to send a message or dismiss (hint: do not mention your mom or exes).

Call it the algorithm method: Working with data crunchers at the dating sites, we put together 25 tips for writing the perfect profile, selecting the right photo, and really understanding your audience.

You may be fun, charming, and intelligent in “real life,” but if you don’t know how to effectively showcase those qualities through the written word and a well designed photo gallery, you will fail to separate yourself from the masses.

This is where our professional profile writers come in.

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We even scoured the top 400 most popular Ok Cupid profiles—the hottest people on the site in ten US cities—to see what their profile pics could tell the rest of us about attracting a date.



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