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You include him in every part of your life, yet he rarely, if ever invites you into any facet of his life.These are signs he is unwilling to share his life with you and is a If he can not make a plan or commit to an event a week away, or even a month away, he will not commit to a lifetime with you.It is unacceptable when the contents of his closet no longer live on hangers, empty food packages are laying around the house or under the couch, and you need a hazmat suit to go into the bathroom. He has to decide to take the reins of the wild stallion that is his mind, and when and if he does, it is a beautiful thing.If you ever live together, you will be his maid and you will resent him. When a man keeps clean, it is equivalent to a full day of foreplay. Someone who leaves, is not the someone you want to rely on when you really need them to show up.Are you always pulling him along in every decision, plan, thought and action?You know the feeling—you are walking in quicksand with 180 to 200 pounds latched to your ankles.Or, do you decide last minute where to go (for dinner or what movie to see)?This is okay some of the time, but romance and chivalry should always be the dominator. A date doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive, just thoughtful.
The root of these behaviors is fear and the dirt of unawareness.
If he does not have one or two close friends, this is a huge red flag.
Are the friends he does have social acquaintances who only carry on small talk with a beer in hand? You know what I mean—the ones who don’t seem to have any direction or real job.
The inability to keep a clean home and care for his belongings, speaks to the lack of control he has over his mind. Xavier Sotomayor/Unsplash If a man leaves you when you are trying to express yourself, or the conversation gets uncomfortable and heated—he doesn’t know how to cope properly. If he physically runs away, he abandons his heart too. If a man cannot express his love for you, he does not love himself.
I think everything should be cared for, whether it is a dish, a shirt, a toilet or a person. No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t love themselves; then, it’s not a relationship, it’s a torture chamber.Through experience, I’ve learned what I am willing to accept and what I’m not.