Rules in dating a guy
Gender is absolutely fluid, and the idea that I can never call a man or make a spontaneous plan with him seems a bit insane.
I tried to practice the traditional rules in a relationship once, and the guy broke up with me, claiming "he was doing all the work here." And you know what? There's a difference between establishing boundaries in a relationship (and making a guy earn your affection) and giving all of your power away.
So while you might be looking for a man who's stoic because old, gender-related dating rules tell us that's what we want, remember, you might want a guy who is sensitive and understands you instead.
Why would you reject that because of some archaic dating rule?
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